Forgiveness - Effortless Inspiration for a Happier Life - by Dani DiPirro is a new little book published on Oct 18th by Watkins Publishing about a theme pretty felt by most of us: forgiveness.
Why should we forgive and when?
Dani DiPirro at the beginning of the book writes: "To all those who have forgiven me and those I have forgiven. I am forever grateful..."
Putting behind the past is empowering and uplifting explains the author. Sure it can be difficult if we have been hurted but indispensable for not create immobility.
Forgiving means to open up space in your heart and mind for love and not hate. More you love says the author and more your life will be rich of positive events.
You mustn't never think negatively, but let's start to think everytime that all people are good at heart.
It will be important write the author of not judging in case you have been hurted the whole situation but the entire process.
Did you know this person from a long time and he/she hurted you?
Let's try to see the goodness he/she brought in your life since you know him/her.
Your own mistakes says the author will be forgiven with more joy if you will forgive other people.
Yes because if neighbors discovers what a person did to you and you didn't forgive him/her can "define you" and you won't never be more able to be who you want to be and who you are. Terrible but true.
So when hurted, keep a journal, talk with a friend, the suggest of DiPirro and then move on.
The past is gone but future can be great of promises.
Another important step will be to forgive people accepting them for who they are.
In this way giving the proper value to a person (a neighbor Antonio, but everybody called him 'Ntogno loved to saying: I give to you the value you deserve) you will live more cheerfully.
Forgive can help to re-build bridges.
It's better to forgive explains DiPirro because you will experience positive feelings and you will make space for good.
Mainly, let's try to forgive ourselves and people not anymore in your life or...passed away. Past is past and forgiving will let you live with less resentment and more joy.
At the end of the book the various top ten list for work, family and other situations for forgiving.
If you don't want to forgive because truly convinced let's remember your health will improve a lot if you are able to move on ;-)
After Gratitude by Dani DiPirro another precious little but incredibly felt book! for bettering our daily emotional life.
So...Forgive someone and present him/her this little book for the Christmas Season!
I thank Netgalley for this book